Estate planning often feels foreign and confusing. It's something most of us would like to avoid. But if you want to leave a legacy and take care of your loved ones, estate planning isn't optional.
To help demystify estate planning for Canadian citizens and residents, I've compiled a series of estate planning stories featuring my clients as well as people in my circle. It can help to hear how others have either structured or ignored their estate planning and to see their results.
It's rare that completely ignoring your estate planning is the right move. But sometimes simple solutions can be the most elegant.
Whether you think you need a trust or you're just starting to write your will, take the time to get inspired by these stories.
I recommend scrolling through this hub to see if any of the headlines call out to you. Then read the stories that feel like they may apply to your situation. And, of course, speak with a professional before taking action. These stories are not a substitute for professional guidance.
Real Families, Real Planning
It might seem like these two concepts don't go hand in hand, but in my experience they're completely intertwined.
Without a strong money mindset, you're not the one in the driver's seat. Money will control the decisions you make.
When it comes to estate planning, you may make mistakes as you try to focus exclusively on tax efficiency or avoiding probate without considering what matters most to you.
All estate planning should begin with introspection on what matters most to YOU — not to anyone else.
If you don't know what matters most, you can't create a plan that truly brings to life your values and leaves an empowering legacy.
As a financial advisor, my mission is to empower purpose-driven women to have a positive money mindset and grow their wealth-building skills, so they can leave an enduring legacy.
Whether you're making $100,000 or $10,000,000 a year, you likely have limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck at your current level. With the right guidance, you can let go of your fears and reach that next level of success and impact.
I hope that the education and stories on this site will help you make better, and more fulfilling money choices.
2. Emotional Outcome of Estate Planning for Married Business Owners
3. Helping an Only Child Steward Family Wealth
4. How a Joint Partner Trust Helps a Younger Spouse
5. How Planning Turned a $400k Inheritance Into Financial Stability
6. How a Canadian Couple Covered RRSP Taxes and Kept Their Cottage
7. Using a Family Trust for Business Owner Estate Planning
8. When a Family Trust Faces Cross-Border Complexities
9. Why a Revocable Trust Wasn’t Right for this Cross-Border Family
10. Preserving Family Wealth Without Creating Dependency
11. How Using a Trust Incorrectly Created a Tax Fiasco
12. How Estate Planning Revealed a Major Risk for This Man’s Wife and Kids
13. How Lack of Planning Froze a Corporation and Created Financial Risk
14. Blended Family Planning With a Trust and Beneficiary Designations
15. Why I Became a Trust and Estate Practitioner (TEP)
1. How a Lack of Estate Planning Created Unnecessary Stress
On paper, Sarah* was inheriting a $2 million estate.
In practice, the combination of a highly appreciated cottage, a large RRSP, and no available cash left the executor facing a substantial tax bill and difficult decisions.
Her family’s experience shows how an estate can create financial pressure when taxes and liquidity are not planned for in advance.
Greg and Susan* owned a successful business in British Columbia and wanted to look ahead to what retirement might be like for them in 10 years.
As part of the planning process, they updated their financial plan and were surprised by the potential tax bill that could arise when the surviving spouse eventually passed away.
Mike* had built significant wealth.
But minimizing tax wasn’t his main concern. With his son still only 16, Mike needed an estate plan that could protect the inheritance today while helping his son manage it responsibly in the future.
With an 11-year age difference between them, Peter* wanted to protect Joanne’s financial security.
While still alive, he wanted to maintain control of $4 million in investments and make the eventual administration of his estate easier. A Joint Partner Trust was the solution.
An inheritance can create opportunities that would otherwise take 20 more years to build.
But only if the money is managed with intention. This case study compares two different inheritance stories to show you how the quality of your decisions will shape your future much more than how much you inherit.
Mary and Jeff * had accumulated substantial wealth, but a lot of it came with future tax and estate-planning complications.
Their $1.5 million in RRSPs could create a major tax liability. Meanwhile, capital gains on their cottage put the couple’s goal of keeping that property for their kids at risk.
Their plan shows how several coordinated strategies can address liquidity, legacy, and charitable giving, and keeping a family cottage in the family.
Scott* has two grown children and a second wife.
One of his kids is helping build the family business while the other has built a career in another province. When you have a business and a blended family, estate planning is complex and necessary.
For Scott, a family trust was the solution he chose because it gave him the structure he needed to preserve the business and support his family.
John’s* estate plan was designed to divide his wealth equally among three children who were living in Canada at the time.
However, when one son permanently moved to the United States, the estate plan wasn’t updated. What had previously been an “equal” inheritance was suddenly disrupted by cross-border tax implications that reduced one beneficiary’s inheritance.
As a Canada-based cross-border advisor and TEP, I have extensive experience working with clients who have lived in the US and used revocable trusts to avoid probate.
I recently met with a family that held their home and investments in a revocable trust in the United States. They had previously used the trust to avoid probate and to ensure their kids received the assets in a timely manner.
After decades of building and reinvesting his wealth, James* needed to structure his estate to support his children and grandchildren without creating dependency or conflict.
He also wanted to prevent irresponsible spending.
A family trust gave him a way to connect financial support with long-term stewardship.
One family I worked with believed everything was in place because a will had been updated and the intended beneficiaries were clearly identified.
However, as the situation was reviewed more closely, a number of risks emerged that had not been immediately obvious. Paul’s* mother owned the home where her son, daughter-in-law, and grandchild were living, and much of the family’s wealth was held solely in his mother’s name.
On paper, Sarah* was inheriting a $2 million estate.
In practice, the combination of a highly appreciated cottage, a large RRSP, and no available cash left the executor facing a substantial tax bill and difficult decisions.
Her family’s experience shows how an estate can create financial pressure when taxes and liquidity are not planned for in advance.
Mike* is married to Joyce. He has a stepson, Ryan, from his first marriage.
While Joyce has a daughter, Emma, who has a history of spending money quickly and struggling to manage finances. This family dynamic makes estate planning more complex.
After working in the field of wealth management for years, one thing became very clear to me: most Canadians know almost nothing about estate planning and how to protect themselves.
I was surprised to discover that at all levels of wealth, people had a mental block around estate planning. They didn’t want to think about their own mortality, and so they would often avoid estate planning or just make a will and do no other planning. But for most families, this type of avoidance is a serious mistake.
Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.
- NELSON HENDERSON
*Names have been changed to protect the identity and privacy of the individuals in all stories. Please seek the advice of professionals before taking action. These stories are for educational purposes only.